var familyData = [
{ man: 1, woman:10, daughter:6, son:3 },
{ man: 4, woman:5, daughter:5, son:2 },
{ man: 1, woman:1, daughter:1, son:1 },
{ man: 1, woman:1, daughter:1, son:1 },
{ man: 1, woman:1, daughter:1, son:1 },
]
var num = 2
familyData.slice(0,num).map(function(members) {
for(var name in members) {
members[name]--
}
return members
}).concat(familyData.slice(num))